generalashreedus:
Alright then dear, beacause you obviously aren’t understanding me, let me lay this out for you:
1) “Practice what you preach” It means if you don’t want others spewing their values on you, stop spewing yours onto them. I’m pro life. You’re pro choice. But here’s the difference: I’m sharing my opinion with people. You’re trying to say that what you believe is fact, when literally, it’s just another opinion. There’s no right or wrong in a topic like this because there’s so many variables to be considered.
2) I’m not telling anyone what to do. Honestly I’m not at all sure what you read, but I think your narrow liberal mind twisted it into something different. Because I never said, “don’t have an abortion” Yes I’m pro life, but I also think that in the end it is up to the mother, I just hope they choose to let their baby live. If you can find fault in me for that, then go right on ahead.
3) I’m not knocking people who decide to have abortions. It’s their decision and though I don’t agree with it, It’s not my business. Let me clear this up for you: I don’t like random abortions because women decide to go throw themselves at whatever moves and then go have abortions because they can’t “be saddled with a mistake.” <(words straight from your president’s mouth) That, in my opinion, is wrong and disgusting. If there’s some medical issue then yeah, sometimes, it’s necessary when it’s mother vs child. Some rape cases, women don’t want to or can’t emotionally have the baby, fine I get that. But don’t tell me I’m “knocking” people when I’m not the one who’s been throwing insults and cuss words left and right.
4) When I said, the pro life POV doesn’t get shared enough, I was referring to tumblr. I always see pro choice activism, but never see pro life values. So I’m sharing mine. Sue me.
5) I watch Fox News. And it’s a hell of a lot more accurate than MSNBC or NBC. What’s your reliable source on msnbc? Rachel Maddow? Chris Matthews? Dear God, if those people are who you’re getting your “accurate information” from I suggest you try again. And see? I don’t only watch Fox News, I also watch the other channels to compare and be able to make an informed decision when it counts.
6) Medically speaking, you believe the baby is a “parasite” right? A bunch of cells leeching off the mother? Well tell me something.. You call the pregnant woman a mother but you won’t recognize the child as a baby.. Explain that part to me. Because my mother didn’t raise a fetus, she raised a baby. A child. Mother/child. Not mother/fetus. So explain how you can call the woman a mother if she isn’t expecting a child.
7) Fact: Most women choose to keep their babies after an ultrasound. That’s not just some random show for a commercial. They aren’t “guilted” into anything, they choose to have an ultrasound, they choose to keep the baby. Because they hear the heartbeat, because yes, the second a baby is conceived, it has a heartbeat even that tiny little “mass of cells” you think isn’t important. That is a fact. You can google it.
8) A baby is never a mistake. And no, a baby is not a “punishment.” if you choose to see it that way, fine. But take a second and think about how you would feel, if your parents back when they found out they were having you, thought you were a “mistake.” Whether they decided to keep you or not. Doesn’t feel too good does it?
9) As to your initial “fuck you very much” tag, I have values that differ from yours. My beliefs aren’t your beliefs. Never once did I insult you, never once did I mock you for believing in what you do. So I’m not hurt by your petty little jabs. Because it’s what most people depend on when they can’t hold a civilized discussion with someone.
10) Thank you, for giving me the chance to show people that I can have an actual discussion with somebody without resorting to cheap shots and insults and some others don’t have said ability. Thanks for giving me the chance to share my opinion and beliefs with people in a civilized fashion, even after being “laughed at” and dismissed.
~Ps: If a woman doesn’t want to or is financially/emotionally/mentally unable to keep their child, there’s a simple solution: adoption. A lot of women and couples out there would love to have children but physically can’t. So instead of throwing away an innocent life that’s just “a bunch of cells” to you, think about a woman who would love to have that “bunch of cells” and raise it and be a mother but can’t.
Actually, “dear” I’m understanding you pretty well. And thanks for reblogging this/tagging it so I could see your response! Oh wait.
1. I really can’t make what I already said about this any clearer.
2. I’m just going to go ahead and ignore that you think liberals are the ones with narrow minds (although I did laugh hysterically), and skip right to you directly contradicting yourself. Also, again, we’re talking about a fetus, not a baby.
3. That is a myth. No woman uses abortion for birth control, or has a “random abortion”. What you’re doing right now is called slut-shaming, and I believe I hear the hoof-beats of high horses again.
He’s your president too, even if you don’t like him.
Don’t act like I’m the one cussing and insulting, when you’re the one who called me a dickshit. Yeah, I saw that.
It’s not up to you to decide what’s a “good” reason to have an abortion.
4. If you don’t see the pro-life pov on tumblr, it’s because you’ve never paid attention. Go into the pro-life tag. Hell, go into the pro-choice tag. Or any social justice tag or blog.
5. Informed!decision fail then. Thanks for the lol at Fox News being most accurate tho. And what was that about not throwing insults around? Hm.
6. Wow. You’re right, your mother didn’t raise a fetus. She raised a baby. Because you had been born. And anyway, the woman doesn’t necessarily have to be called a mother. Uterus-bearer, woman, pregnant female. The word mother doesn’t have to come into play at all. But nice try.
7. I did google it. And you know what? I found actual women’s sites that actually support women (as opposed to the conservative propaganda sites I assume you looked at) that said that ultrasounds rarely affect a woman’s decision to have an abortion. So nice try! Way to try and use science (wrongly).
8. I already know I was a mistake. I wasn’t planned, and I wouldn’t have been at all surprised if my mother wanted to abort me. And knowing her, it might not have been such a bad choice. But she didn’t. And that doesn’t magically make me pro-life. My mother decided she wanted me, but that doesn’t mean every women wants to have a child. And it shouldn’t. Nice guilt-tripping! You’ll be a republican candidate yet!
9. Again, you did insult me, you just thought I wouldn’t see it. I don’t have to be nice to you, it’s not my job. And I’m not being petty, if I was, I’d just tell you what a shitty rp’er you are and have done with it. If pro-life activists think picketing and attacking women is ‘civilized’ the I’m just acting accordingly. Nice try trying to make me look like the bad guy!
10. You’re very welcome! I’m glad you took this opportunity to try and make yourself seem like a martyr to your followers! Happy to help! Again, I don’t have to be nice to anyone when discussing my own rights, that are constantly under attack.
PS. There’s are thousands of children waiting to be adopted, that never will be. Why should a woman be forced to carry a child to term, just to watch it go away to be unloved and unwanted anyway? Especially since people are reluctant to trans-racially adopt. And some of those couples are gay, and you’re right they’d love to adopt, but can’t. Gee, I wonder who decided that. Let me check Fox News.
Google it.